Hey there, in the mean time, you can actually do this now if you like. I just tested it to make sure the idea works. Get some clit morphs you like, say from Ash Auryn's genital morph pack. Then mark them as favorites. This will allow them to show up in plugin morph lists, unless you have the show all morphs option enabled in vam user preferences.
Next go to body language's read my lips, stimulation tab, stimulation triggers. Look at the bottom for value triggers. For example, you could do input from: 0 and input to: 0.50. This would make clitoris swelling go from 0 at stimulation 0, to 100 at stimulation 50%. This will let you keep the full swelling for the second half of the orgasm. If you want it another way, do that.
Next click the green button for on value changed. On value actions, add a transition effect. Settings -> receiver atom: Person (or your model's name), receiver: geometry, receiver target: the clit morph (more than one, repeat this process). For the sliders, start morph: default (probably 0.00), end morph 1.0.
You now have clitoris erection that will scale with stimulation!
For the second idea, use Hazmhox fluids plugin and add Person_Fluids.cs to the Person. You can do the CUA parenting thing too but person_fluids is the easy way. Just custom that out, default is fine, then go back to read my lips. Go to the orgasm tab, and click the on orgasm start button. Add discrete action -> Person, personFluidEditorBlahBlah, receiver target: spray X times, random duration. Set it to spray like 7 times or something.
Boom you're done! Click orgasm now to test it. To test the clit morphs just raise the stimulation gain in the stimulation tab a lot, and you'll quickly see it.
Does that work?