hi
@TToby
thanks for your reply, im not sure what are you talking about, but i downloaded them using the VAM browser?! it's not only hair, but also cloths !
Thanks
Sorry for going too far. In the last three years with VaM, we had some different ways of sharing stuff, and some of that is still out there. But if you are using the official VaM browser, this does not apply to you.
There is almost no way you could have done anything wrong. Everything is automatic.
There is (almost) no way to mix male/female cloth and hair. That is the strange thing with your issue. If the creator has done it for female,than it's female.
The only idea I have for your issue:
Do you know everything about the so called "dependencies"?
To not share the same hair style (for instance) over and over again, the creator should not include it in it's download, but link to it from an other source. The same applies to other stuff like cloth and plugins.
If you download a look, for instance, there most likely will be a long list of dependencies.
I have seen scenes with 60 dependencies and more!
You don't get what you see on that shiny preview picture. Maybe no hair, no cloth, and maybe even most of the morphs are missing. To get all those stuff, click on "get dependencies" in the browser.
Please note that there is an error log in your main menu. This will show all missing dependencies, for instance.
But be warned: you may clutter your drive with tons of stuff in a blink of an eye:
To get one single hair style, the creator may have linked a whole hair pack as dependency.
To maybe add a single head morph, the creator may have linked a whole look from an other creator.
You may want to pre-select a bit and think about what you really want and need.
It is unfortunately not easy to sort out and get rid of all that clutter afterwards.
An other (less possibly) idea: There is a lot of stuff for futa aka shemales around. Those are technically male figures.
So if you are wondering why you maybe have a fancy summer dress in your male clothing tab, or maybe some female hair styles in your hair tab, this is because of the futa.