Oh, the wire frame you’re seeing around the genitals is probably the debug mode of toy serial controller which is contained within the scene plug-ins tab. Sorry I left that on. I was checking to make sure the movement was as I intended. To turn it off, simply go into the scene plug-ins, and inside ToySerialController under the debug tab uncheck the debug mode.
If you want to, you can possess the male model. I have had problems in the past when I did that which made the alignment go all weird but give it a try and let me know if it’s fine.
As for the female arousal I did try to set this up so that it takes a little while for her to reach orgasm on her own, but feel free to tell her to go faster or to drain your balls and you both will reach climax faster. If it seems like it’s just never happening then you can look inside the female model under the first plug-in set for read my lips and see if the arousal value is stuck. Let me know if that happens, but I would recommend to simply restarting VAM, and re-launching the scene. Also try changing to a different model because I have seen that sometimes reset the arousal profile for the female