Question Collision issues with mouth/nipples

[Bob Nothing]

I'm hoping someone can help me with understanding this. For example, if I want to use Silver Kiss plugin, the 2 heads always 'collide' before their lips even get close to touching. The only way I've found to get a good 'kissing' look is by disabling all collision on one person. Obviously not ideal for a lot of reasons. The other is trying to simulate nipple sucking, it's very hard to get the nipple into the mouth without the breast collision going crazy. Any tips/tricks to make these work? Thanks in advance!

 

[DTB247]

if you get the collider editor plugin you can downsize / adjust the face colliders . They extend pretty far above the face by default.
the same applies to the finger colliders.