Thought my playtime with my character in Metachat, I attempted to 'create" a strap-on situation to play with. But, it didn't work out because of the latency.
So, I have tweaked some clothing choices, both with the aim of some level of consistency between all 3 genders.
Changed the Futa Version to appear closer to the Female version, but adopting more feminine clothing and putting on panties that make it look like the Female version simply wearing a black strap-on. You can simply disable this clothing item if you prefer.
I also choose the same hair style for both Female and Futa versions, to futher emphasize that it's the same character, just one with a strap-on.
It was NOT easy. There are really not that many clothing items for Futa/Male.
In keeping with a certain ratio of exposed skin. I also gave the Male look a nice shirt, with a little window to tease.