Hi. Glad you like the plugin. I haven't used it with Diving rod, and honestly, am not a fan of DR due to it's tendency to mess up nodes. But if it works for you, go for it. I would think it would get conflicts, but maybe not. As to your request, I was going to add that, but I just recently started using
@Foost's amazing fluids plugin, triggering it on pullout and I THINK that might do what you want, and better than I could likely do. I know it spasms the penis on orgasm. I'm not 100 percent sure if it would move the penis to point up. I'll look into that more.