Included a version of the scene using no clothes, less performance intensive versions of the male character and fewer textures around the scene
Apparently using the same texture twice in the scene also doubles the amount of RAM it needs, A quick look at the task manager showed that the regular scene needs at least 20GB of RAM, the included new one only uses ~14GB)
Please notify me if you happen to have 16GB of RAM and it still crashes! I can further slim it down, though wanted to see if the changes I made might already be sufficient.