Unfortunately, I have the same problem when connecting my Solace to VAM. Sometimes, it seems to be trying to find the right spot, and it shakes up and down very strangely. I don't know if it's the fault of Lovense itself or a plugin, but it's a bit annoying...
Especially knowing that the Handy (you can see it in the linked the video i posted below.) owned by user CuddleMocap (btw, thanks for the tutorial, bruv!) behaves perfectly with the woman's hip movements. And sadly, with my Solace, its delayed (Like a second or so.) It's very noticeable and hard to get used to when you feel movements that are different from what you see on the screen (or VR goggles).
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So... is it Lovense's fault? Maybe Handy is simply better optimized for VaM? Can someone help?