Question poses for pairs

[finmer]

I tried following the instructions about poses

1) Set one of the two character to Parent to the other.
2) Turn off Physics then Collisions for both.
3) Select the parent character and move both to new coordinates.
4) Activate your Pose Presets for Male & Female.
5) Re-enable Collisions then Physics for both characters,

But I always got the same result - both personas took the same pose as the first atom from the preset.
How can I fix this ?

 

[everlaster]

Looks like you're loading the same pose. You need to load a different pose on each atom.

 

[finmer]

Looks like you're loading the same pose. You need to load a different pose on each atom.

But there is only one preset for both atoms in var.
How can I select separate presets for each atom ?

 

[everlaster]

But there is only one preset for both atoms in var.
How can I select separate presets for each atom ?

f31 = female 31
m31 = male 31

 

[finmer]

f31 = female 31
m31 = male 31

Thanks !!!
It's so obvious it's hard to guess ))))))