It's true, males have a lot less colliders. However, there's a plugin from Urukyay that adds cylinder atoms to force some collision points where they're missing:
See Updates for clarification on strikethrough text. Warning : this is very beta. The plugin adds 42 atoms to the scene, which are a pain to remove by hand if things go wrong. No longer adds extra atoms. Still experimental. Keep a copy of your...
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Read the instructions if you use it.