um, have you seen voxta? and the ALM plugin? I don't get any credit for plugging this, but it' so awesome, and yes, with my setup, i comfortably run the LLM, VAM and TTS/STT just fine.
Processor 12th Gen Intel(R) Core(TM) i9-12900K 3.20 GHz OC @ 4.99GHz
Installed RAM 64.0 GB (63.7 GB usable)
voxta.ai
[USER]@Acid-bubbles[/USER]
and
hub.virtamate.com
@vaan20
running koboldcpp, piper (TTS) and vosk (STT) locally
I run a 13B model and she stays pretty on track, if you crank up the token size and add to the memory as needed
Processor 12th Gen Intel(R) Core(TM) i9-12900K 3.20 GHz OC @ 4.99GHz
Installed RAM 64.0 GB (63.7 GB usable)

Voxta - Unrestricted Speech-Driven AI
Talk with a virtual friend, have fun with a character, and interact with them in virtual reality. Unrestricted.

and

Action List Manager (ALM) for Voxta - Plugins + Scripts -
This plugin is a router that ties the VaM defined actions based on triggers and Timeline animations. You can link actions into a tree of choices to build a consistent story. It supports triggers and multi-context - location/clothes/custom...

running koboldcpp, piper (TTS) and vosk (STT) locally
I run a 13B model and she stays pretty on track, if you crank up the token size and add to the memory as needed